It's about balance.

"It's all about balance."  Say this when you missed the question.  They'll probably agree with you.  Because you're right.  It is all about balance.  Oscar Wilde had a fun way of saying it. "Everything in moderation, including moderation."  He understood the cost of indulgence.  And, the importance of fun, humor, and not to mention being earnest.  So, be the way Oscar Wilde thought he was.  With balance.